All you’ve got to do is:

• Uplift them
• Tell them they are smart, beautiful, funny, worthy, helpful, friendly
• Provide unconditional love
• Listen to them, with an open mind, open heart
• Avoid overbearing demands
• Be honest, trustworthy, respectful, available, excited, non-judgmental, protective 
• Keep promises
• Smile when they walk in, support them, trust them, praise them 
• Be a friend, but parent first
• Hang out with them, enjoy unexpected moments,
• Turn up the tunes, dance in the car
• Don’t punish, simply advise, understand, and relate
• Ask questions, maintain interest
• Let them live their own life, not yours
• Say I love you, not just ‘love you’
• Be enthusiastic, energetic, open
• Embrace them, hold their hands, kiss and hug them
• Cherish them
  

  And when their confidence soars, keep them grounded by instilling a sense of humbleness